I really wish I had someone to cuddle with right now. I really want to believe that my break up was a good idea, but if it was, would I want to go back to him so soon? Would I be aching for company? Am I missing him? Am I just wanting him to fill a space? Or Am I just using him? Men say that women are difficult. But it’s a lie. We are simple. Ridiculously simple creatures. At the end of the day we just want someone to sit there, tell us we are pretty, smart, and worth something, and love us for all that we are (or aren’t). We just want someone we can trust and depend on. 

No, Boys. Boys are the more difficult creature. You have all these complex feelings. You like us one day and you don’t like us the next. You text us absolutely adorable things, and then in public ignore us. You will place your hand around our waist, to show that we are yours, not to be touched, and then you leave us alone the entire night. You will give your number, and then not respond when we call.

You will flirt with us but not take us out on dates. You will brag about fucking us senseless but never touch us. You will brag about your masculinity, but use a messenger to ask us out. Or worse. Even worse, you will sit there and pine away at us, and never tell us your true intentions. You will never tell us how you truly feel. Those. Those are the boys you have to watch out for. 

The boys that pine for you from far away. The one’s that are our best friends, just so they can be near us. The one’s that everyone in the world knows that they are crushing on you, except you of course. The one’s who stare at you from across the cafeteria when they think you don’t see them. The one’s who always there when you need him, and even when you don’t. The extra helpful always there kind of guy. 

Those are the worse! They’ve seen you through your bad times and your good times. The one that knows everything about you. The one you can’t hide from, and the perfect guy for you. Until he gets comfortable around girls and leaves you. 

Those are the boys that you have to watch out for.